How can Mothers get away with So Much!!

It all started in July of 2007. My husbands daughter at that time said that she wanted to come live with us. He never wanted to take her mom to court before because she can be a devious one. In July, we filed for Custody. Time went by, he fought and fought and finally in June of 2008, he was granted as the Primary Physical Custodian. The Mother refused to continue with trial, so instead, a visitation agreement was hashed out. 50/50 during the summer months, and Primary with us for the school year. This is where it all started. In Pennsylvania, there is no exact law on 50/50 Custody, therefore, they went by where the child had resided the previous 6 months, which was with the mother.He was court ordered to continue paying child support through the month of August through the Mother's county where she resided. In July of 2008, he was granted child support for the summer months in the County where we reside. He was paying $412.88 per month, the Mother in return was ordered to pay $190.32 per month. To this date, we have not received a penny. The mother is continuously fighting, but only the back support, not the current support. The mother's theory on all of this is "He gets to keep what he was paying me, therefore I am paying support" ?????? I mean come on now. What I would like to know, is how do you get someone for perjury?
This mother has lied in every court hearing regarding custody and child support. After we gained custody, he went to get his daughters records from the doctors offices, hospitals, schools, etc., because this stuff had always been denied to him. Here is what we found out.
Hospital visits- Mother's boyfriend listed as childs guardian
Doctors- My hustband, the father, was listed as being deceased.
School records- He was listed as no longer with the family and not a part of the childs life.

He has always been a part of his daughters life to the fullest that the mother has allowed. This is what drew us together, because I was a single mother of 3. I loved the fact that he cherished his child so much, and was always there for her no matter what. He never knew what his rights were, and previously when the child was much younger he had attempted to get custody. Outcome of that, Mother filed a PFA and refused my husband visitation. They soon got back together, and immediately, the Mother dropped the PFA. Now, she has tried to bring up this PFA in court and it is 11 years old.
This Mother has another child, which is her boyfriends child, and she claims that he is autistic, because he mimics what he hears on movies. She is even listed as a "Rescue Angel" because her child was cured or has significantly recovered from Autism. According to what she told her daughter, her son is mentally unstable because "She nooked his bottles in the microwave, giving him radiation harm?" The Mother claims his diets are $200.00 a week, etc., etc., and was even given a deviation from child support because of this. We can't afford another attorney, we are still paying off the custody lawyer. Anyone who has been through this, knows it is very hard. What the Mother fails to mention, and my husbands daughter states 1. her brother was never allowed out of the car seat, and even slept in it. 2. They don't have TV so the Mother replays the same Movies over and over and over (who wouldn't mimic a movie after that)
Mother claims on her "Rescue Angel" application, that she has a Masters in SPED. She told Child Support she is in the process of this, and told her daughter she is doing it online. Has anyone ever heard of getting a Masters Degree Online??? I haven't and I have even looked into it and from what I understand, it is impossible.
This Mother also has another child that lives with his Father in another state. They also fought for custody, and won. Mother claims that it's because she wanted what was best for her boy, but any parent knows, you don't just give up your children for no reason, and especially not a mother like this!! She does not pay child support for this child either. Nobody wants to deal with her so they just leave and pray she will leave them alone. Her son, will have nothing to do with her, and my step daughter is about there too.
She had her first school dance, I helped her with her make up, took her shopping for a dress, did her hair, etc., and my step daughter was very excited to show her a picture. You know what the mother said ???? She told my step daughter she looked like a "Hussy"
We keep informing our lawyer of all of this, and all we hear is "Bite your tongue, things will change"
So in the meantime, my step daughter is being forced to be mentally abused by her Mother, and there is nothing my husband or myself can do. My step daughter tells her lawyer everything, and letters get sent out, but nothing seems to happen. Everyone is in agreeableness with everything, except the Mother, and she continues to get away with the lies and deviations.

Want to hear the best part of this Mother ??????? She is a Substitute Teacher. I have already sent in a request that I better never find out this woman is teaching my kids!! I can't believe someone like this can actually get the credentials to do such. Don't teachers have to go through some sort of psychological evaluation??
Here is what my step daughter learned from her mother over the Summer Break:
1. Girls get Breast Cancer from sleeping with their bras on
2. Boys get Breast Cancer from Titty Twisters
3. If she ends up pregnant, she needs to tell her mom or she will end up throwing her baby in the dumpster.
4. Her brother is Autistic due to radiation in the bottles her mom nooked up in the microwave.


And I am sure there is more, but I think you got the feel of this. Imagine, even with all of this, and documentation for a year prior to filing for custody, my husband almost didn't get custody of his daughter because the Mother bribed her, and the courts do take into consideration what a child wants. There was an angel sitting on my step daughters shoulder though, because one day she woke up, and that was that, she knew what she really wanted. I thank goodness every day that she came to her senses.
Pennsylvania has got to be one of the hardest states to take a child away from a mother, especially a pre teen who is already adapted to a way of living.
Regardless though, we are still having a hard time with Child Support, the Mother words the Custody Order as she sees fit and re words it to benefit her at the moment. This can't be legal. There has been so much perjury in this case, I can't believe she hasn't been charged yet.
The Mother even went to the extent to tell Child Support that my step daughter is on a 6 month probation period at her dads, which is not true. The Mother has planned a welcome home party for my step daughter in December, because we have court again, and the Mother thinks it's to get the child back. This woman has serious issues!~

Any advice on how to get her for perjury would be great!! A++++++++ for all the Dads out there that are fighting hard for their children. It's tough, but keep holding on. I think that the systems throughout are bias on Fathers in general. You ever notice that when you read in the child support book, it always refers to the "Father" being the support payor. Not the Mother.